I got married in June, even though the application was done around the end of April, and even then experienced a change in date that made us rearrange everything. But everything is ready even if only within 2 months.
CHOOSE WEDDING ORGANIZER SERVICES
In general, WO ( Wedding Organizer ) has its own rules, for example if you have already paid a down payment ( DP ) and if there is a change in date, then Dp will be forfeited . Before choosing a WO to use, you should first make sure the wedding date is right, there are no changes, make sure the negotiations in discussing the wedding date in consultation with the two families of prospective brides.
The case is the same as mine, I have already paid a certain amount of Dp money, and it turns out there was a change in date, because I chose a WO that could be compromised , finally the Dp money was not forfeited.
In addition, WO bookings are usually done at least 6 months before the wedding day, but if you are urged, then you should find a WO who can be invited to negotiate about this.
ENSURE PACKAGE OF WEDDING ORGANIZERS
The wedding reception is very dependent on the WO, it can be said that 90% of the Wo will be responsible for the continuity of the event and the readiness of the property that must be provided.
Therefore, you make sure what packages will be received when choosing the WO, for example;
- Wedding dress
- Bridal makeup / MUA
- Aisle design and stage area
- Tents, chairs and tables for guests
- Food equipment
- Photographers, and others
Do not miss anything before you agree with the signature, you should also ask where the excess package if you choose the WO, and whether there will be additional costs in the future.
If you feel you have understood what will be obtained, then you can then take care of other interests. Make sure you can complete this for at least 3 weeks
CATERING
The most important thing at the reception is a meal that must be provided, you can contact the catering service or cook it yourself, because I am in the area of the village, usually for matters of food will be cooked at the occasion of the laureate with the help of relatives and neighbors, so maybe this will be a little troublesome because you have to know how much raw material you have to buy so there is no shortage later.
But if you don't want to bother, then the best way is to order a catering service that is clearly all done in one or three days.
TAKING CARE OF MARRIAGE DATA
If all of the above is done within one month, then you also potential candidates must immediately prepare all the requirements for marriage in the state records.
This process takes a long time in my opinion, because there are many stages that must be followed, one of which;
- Make a marriage permit (ngadon)
- Fill in the data of the bride and groom in the village and sub-district
- Undergoing a special mentoring process (usually one to three days)
- Undergoing a series of health tests, and others
so, for the handling of this matter, I need 1.5 months and that too is said to be fast, some even up to 3 months have just finished processing this data.
CONCLUSION
For those of you who will undergo one part of worship (marriage), do not hesitate or be afraid of not being able to do just because of the limited time, all can be done and maximized, provided there is an effort as well as your intention.
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